Breast cancer is breast cancer, Right?

Hello people,

Spoiler alert, there is no makeup or fashion in this post!

I hope that this post finds all of you healthy and enjoying Summer.  I would like to take a moment to remind the women readers to do monthly breast exams.  In cast you didn't know this, Men can develop breast cancer as well.  So, men if you feel something odd, get it checked.

Now how is one type of breast cancer different from another?  Well of course there is staging, but I won't get into that. There is  breast cancer that you would typically hear about, then there is inflammatory breast cancer which is mainly the tissue of the breast and ducts, and there is METS BC. Here is some information that I borrowed from Amy Durfee West's blog.  http://www.durfeewest.com/?tag=metastatic-breast-cancer

Stage IV breast cancer is considered incurable. That makes it kind of an embarrassment in some of the “survivor” literature. Supposedly you have early detection, and you follow doctor’s orders, and you do your surgery, chemo and maybe radiation, and you lose weight and control stress and you become a cancer-free survivor. What do we do with people who don’t fit that profile? Well, there isn't much research funding for Mets breast cancer.

METAvivor’s 5 MBC Misperceptions

Myth: Research funding is well balanced for all stages of cancer.
Reality: 90% of cancer deaths result from Stage IV cancer, but only 2% of research funds are devoted to stage IV.
Myth: Metastatic breast cancer is rare.
Reality: 30% of breast cancer patients progress to Stage IV. Many more initially present with metastatic breast cancer.
Myth: Healthy lifestyles, timely screening and early detection prevent metastasis.
Reality: Metastasis happens despite vigilance and precautions. Even Stage I patients can and do metastasize.
Myth: Metastatic breast cancer is becoming a chronic disease. Fewer die every year.
Reality: New treatments extend life for some, but survival remains elusive. Over 40,000 women and men have been dying annually since 1987.
Myth: Stage IV breast cancer patients are well supported by many groups.
Reality: Far too many patients must face their challenges with little to no support. Most programs focus on wellness and recovery, avoiding any reference to Stage IV.

Okay, so that is end of the post that I've linked you to.  On this page so aptly named The beautiful life, I want to impart on you that despite the negative things that are in the information,  I still feel joy. Each morning I wake, It is another gift.  I used to wake up thinking that it was the same old same old.  Now I wake up thinking of the day as a blessing.  It also makes me not plan things long term.  It is about living in the moment or the day.  That really does make every second such a beautiful moment in life.   In so many ways it also has made the people closest to me more beautiful too.  They say you never know who your real friends are until you go through a crisis.  That is completely true.  My true friends and family are beyond coming through for me.  They are solid as a rock.

Let me remind you again to check yourselves, and get yearly mammograms.

Thank you for stopping by missditz-thebeautifullife.

Leslie

Beauty mistakes that men will notice and walk away from.

There are some beautiful women out there in the world.  Men will eye them and women will size them up.  Then there are the women that we just have to stare at and it is their whooper sized mistakes.  You can't help but notice them.  Let me show you a few of the doozies that have drawn my attention.

The dark roots.

bad hair day.

 

 

 

 

 

Seeing this look just makes me cringe.  I am not sure if it is supposed to be a style statement, or if the person has absolutely no time to look in the mirror and witness the passage of time.  If they are going for getting back to their natural color, there are better ways to do it than this.  You only need a little growth exposed to match a color.
 Bad lipstick.

this is just not right

I just don't know what to say about this lipstick look.  It is a mixture of trying to get a fuller lip and trying to have the natural looks. It is a big peeve to me.


women dressing older than their age.

Helen Bonum Carter

Miss Carter is a beautiful woman.  This looks isn't really the worst I have seen her wear.  In this picture it is the hair I focus on as being so beautiful until she attached all the silly accessories.  It is just a bit much.

Here is pic of my look today.

I call this look chemo chic

Just say no to drug. LOL!

The funniest nurse you will ever meet.

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Leslie

Made in America!http://www.leeindustries.com/

People, when you go shopping do you notice that virtually everything has a made in China sticker on it?  Do you wonder who works in America and if things are still made here?  Well, millions of people work here and as many products are still made here instead of being out sourced.  I will be featuring some of those on my blog from time to time.  Since the theme of my blog is a more beautiful life.  You will find anything from cosmetics, to yard decorations and clothing. 

First let me start with a quick and surprising discovery.  My very favorite cosmetic line is made right here in California.  Lime crime cosmetics is made in Los Angeles California.  I did a little happy dance when Erica aka Doe Deere of Lime crime responded to the question where they were made.  I had the suspicion when they relocated from New York to Cally.  This totally excited me.  Because when I purchase an American product I feel like I am supporting my country a bit more.  http://www.limecrimemakeup.com


For clothing that is made in the good 'ol US of A.  You can shop American apparel at your local mall or go online.  There is a large array of clothing to be shopped.  Men, women, and children's clothing.  Plus they have a vintage line!!  Yummy stuff there.  http://store.americanapparel.net

If you have a desire to put new furnishing in your home.  You may want to check out furniture from Lee Industries.  Opened in 1969 by Bill and Dotty Coley.  The home of Lee industries in North Carolina.  If you would like to view the furniture catalog you can check it out here.   http://www.leeindustries.com

These are just a few of the most awesome American made products you can find.  Now if you are thinking that it is more costly to buy American you will be quite surprised.  Most products that I purchase at Sephora are no less than $40.  While each product I buy at Lime Crime are $14-16.  The clothing at American apparel is right in price point with other stores that sell clothing from other countries.  Such as Aeropostle, and Forever 21.  Both are stores that I really like.  The furniture at Lee industries has such a wide selection and style, with cost being very comparable with other stores such as Ashley furniture.

Well people, thank you for walking through Americana with me.  Please subscribe in the upper corner. 

Leslie

Today, I am the mad hatter.

Hello my people. How are all yawl doing? Here in Texas it is HOT! So, wearing my wig all the time isn't really fun. I do wear it when we go out in public. But while at home I like to chill out. So today my family and I went hat shopping. In this collage you get to see me being a mad hatter. You should check out all the awesome hat fashions that are out there now. I never realized how much fun that hats can be. Having no hair can be a blessing after all.

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French manicure with blue and a silver lining.

People you won't believe the treat I allowed myself today.  After year of diy manicures and nail art, I went to get my nails done.  It was a group event with my mom, sister and daughter.  We had such a blast.  My mom got solar nails.  They look amazing.  The rest of us ladies got manicures and polish.  This nail spa we went to has been rated 5 stars in D (Dallas) magazine.  I have done some research and discovered they have several locations here in Texas.  The name of the salon is Bliss nail spa. It smelled pleasant there, and was very clean.  The people there were all very kind and service oriented.  The experience left us feeling pampered. The hand massage was extra long.  I was relaxed and happy with the results.   So, I have included some photographs of the manicure I got.  It is a french tip that is blue with a silver line beneath it.  It is so beautiful. 

I am wearing cosmopop lipstick by Lime crime with Barry M dust in grey and blue on my lids.  The blush is from Laura Gellar.  My silk scarf is a gift from the Ford warriors in training that they sent with our family team shirts. 

If you live in Texas, try and find a Bliss nail spa.  If not, check out your local city magazines for which nail salons near you rank highest.  Treat yourself to a manicure.  It feels divine.  You'll be so glad you did!

Thank you for dropping in.  See you next time.

Leslie

How Leslie got her groove back-new wig.

Hello people,

So much has happened since I last spoke to you. I have had the blessing of my Mom and my dear sister Judy coming to visit my family.

Top left- Judy, Middle bottom- Mom, Top right Leslie

 The day after they arrived we went and had our photos take. Then my hubby and my mom began to do what they love the best.  Working on a project in our yard.

New pond for the yard.

 

 

They are going to surround it with slate and also make an extension to our existing patio.  It is going to be so beautiful.  I just love having people visit and help us with projects.  Every time I enjoy my yard I look around and see bits and pieces of work that my mom or in-laws have helped us with.  Great memories, and good times.

We also went to my sons company picnic.  That was a blast.  I line danced and we all played putt putt golf.  My mom had never played, and she kicked out butts.

See me sporting my scarf out on the dance floor?  Line dancing is so much fun.

Mom kept making hole in ones.  She is an awesome golfer.

Judy rocking the golf course

My score was so bad, you don't even want to know.

We topped the day off by getting rid of the few wisps of hair I had left.  Now I am shiny bald like the Mr. Clean guy.  I guess I will be using a lot less shampoo and hair spray!!

My handsome hubby and I now look alike.

We match!

But the really cool thing is that Today I got my wig fitting done!  It is shorter than my hair had been, but it looks pretty good.

The stylist fitting my wig  while my sister keeps a sharp eye out that she does it right.

The finished look.

 Well my people, thank you so much for stopping by.  Have a terrific day!  Please remember to subscribe if you haven't.  Or hit the follow button the right side of the page!  Thanks.


Leslie

Rocking the gypsy look

Today, because my hair is coming out in clumps, I am sporting the gypsy look.  If you are going to rock the gypsy look you are going to need a few items.  Funky gypsy looking clothes are helpful.  You can find a few items to match that description here at top shop.  Here is a link for you to view,  

http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?%20beginIndex=0&viewAllFlag=&catalogId=33057&storeId=12556&productId=2328689&langI%20d=-%201&sort_field=Relevance&categoryId=208523&parent_categoryId=203984&pageSize=20


You can fin a lot of gypsy style here:

http://www.gypsymoon.com/category/west.shtml

In order to do the basics you need an awesome scarf for head covering.  Wild skirt that will spin in a giant circle if you were to get your gypsy groove on.  Long dangling earrings or hoops.  Flat shoes are great, but thigh high boots are even more amazing.

As more of my hair falls out, I will be wearing a variety of colorful scarfs.  I will also be sporting a new wig.  But you don't have to lose your hair to be feeling the gypsy vibe.  It is a fun, fresh look.  It can be romantic and sexy too.  It just depends how you want to play it up.  If you decide to play around with this look, send me a picture of how you turn out.  I would love to see you.

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Memorial day -Thanks for all you do

For those who have served, are serving or will serve in the military in the future,

Thank You for all you do.  For all you sacrifice, and the danger you put yourself in.

Happy memorial day.

Leslie

Hats, and scarves and hair loss oh my!

Hello People,

Life is interesting here.  I've got a hair line that wants to recede.  Today it is totally working on falling out all together.  So, I have gone and stocked up and scarves and a hat.  The wig is ready and waiting to be fit when the hair is gone.  This is the update on all that is going on in that department.





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Leslie

New hair doo

Hello People,
I hope you all are well.  I am feeling a bit off since the chemo on Friday.  But I am feeling okay other wise I feel alright.  My family is taking special care of me. 

When I have my second treatment I will lose my hair.  In prep for that my hubby and I went wig shopping at All about you boutique.  It was a good to go while I still have hair.  Then they could see my hair and try to match it.  Do you want to see what I have ordered?  Of course you do.  Here goes:







It is a bit more tapered around the face than how I wear it now.  It will look good though.  It will be in store next Saturday and ready for me to have it adjusted.  Around the house, I'll probably wear scarves and hats.  It can be weird having no hair.  But just think of all the time I will save getting ready in the morning.  That is one positive.

When the wig comes in I will do a little wig fashion show. 

Thanks for stopping by.

Leslie